Member-only story

The Love Language of Friendship and One Way to Strengthen Its Bonds

Make a contact list

Melissa Gouty
4 min readJan 27, 2021
The friendship of years. Photo: Melissa Gouty

The Blessing of Friendship

There is nothing like the blessing of friends, and I’ve been blessed, indeed.

When I hired on at the community college, I was the baby of the group, mentored, mothered, encouraged, and inspired by the strong, intelligent, older women in my division. Thirty years after I was hired, these women are still my closest friends. Together, we have experienced life with all its trials and triumphs: marriages, births, job advancements, divorce, retirements, birthdays, holidays, and deaths.

We’ve traveled the world together, discussed politics, books, current events, recipes, movies, sports, and celebrities for decades.

So you’d think we’d know absolutely everything about each other.

What You Don’t Know About Your Friends Might Surprise You

More than thirty years together, and we didn’t know what we needed to know to help our friend.

Think about it. List a couple of your good friends right now. I bet you know the number of children they have, the gender, and their names. You may have even met some of them. You probably know where your friends’…

--

--

Melissa Gouty
Melissa Gouty

Written by Melissa Gouty

Writer, teacher, speaker, and observer of human nature. Content for HVAC & Plumbing Businesses. Author of The Magic of Ordinary. LiteratureLust and GardenGlory.

Responses (1)